March 24, 2009

Online Dating, Anyone?

Being alone is tough, I know. Getting over a broken heart is tougher. When you had your heart broken, it sometimes feel like you’re never going to fall again, right? But they say there’s a reason for everything that happen in our lives. It could be that, that person was never meant for you. Your one, true soulmate is still out there looking for you too, the way you’re searching for him or her. But then, maybe you aren’t. If you’re not it’s time you do. Nothing’s going to happen if you just sit there twiddling your thumb and hope that one day he or she is going to knock on your door! If you’re not ready to find that someone face to face, then maybe you can go online. Being a bit of an online flirt is not bad. In fact many have found their lifetime partners in these dating sites.

But, sometimes it doesn’t mean you have to immediately find a husband or a boyfriend. Just be open and friendly and see where it will go on from there. Sometimes giving in to this pressure is one of ingredients to a disastrous relationship. Make it light. And if it’s meant to be, it will naturally blossom, bit by bit into real love, and into a lasting relationship. It won’t hurt to give online dating a try, right? You deserve to be happy, but no one can give that happiness to you. You have to go out from your comfort zone and take the first step!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I agree with you. Just because your previous affair ended badly, it doesn't mean that it will happen again. Let yourself to fall in love. Go gradually and take your time, but do be prepared to fall in love again. Locking your heart to love because of one bad experience will ensure you end up lonely and bitter.